Not Religious, Just Deeply Jewish: Exploring Identity Beyond Belief

I am not religious.

That might be surprising to read, and I get it—it’s easy to assume that someone who talks about the overlaps between Judaism and personal development would identify as religious.

But I don’t.

What I do identify with is our culture, our heritage, and the profound, complex story of the Jewish people. I’m proud to come from a lineage that is resilient, that loves learning and making meaning, and is committed to sustaining our traditions and values.

For me, Judaism isn’t just “a religion.” It’s a rich tapestry of traditions, texts, and teachings spanning generations over thousands of years. It’s the story of a people who have endured unimaginable challenges and still find ways to thrive, adapt, and contribute to the world.

This is why I approach Jewish books, commentaries, and teachings with curiosity—not as a set of religious mandates but as sources of inspiration and connection. When I read these texts, I’m stepping into the shoes of my ancestors, people who made it through the darkest of hours and somehow left behind a legacy of Jewish joy. I’m learning about their struggles, their questions, their search for meaning. I’m uncovering the wisdom they left behind to help us make sense of this wild, beautiful, chaotic existence.

But it’s more than just history—it’s spiritual. Judaism makes me feel part of something so much bigger than myself. It’s in the Jewish geography and those instant, unspoken connections we feel with one another. It’s in the moments spent engaging with those who came before me and thinking about what I’ll leave behind for those who come next. It’s about belonging to a people, a story, and a purpose that transcends time.

So, no, I’m not religious. 

But I am Jewish. 

And I’m proud of it.